I received a telephone call, last night. Having Bob Angelucci call me isn't unusual, but this call took my breath away.
For the second time, we've lost one of our own. Someone we'd shared such a huge part of our lives with.
"Chuck" Bob said, "Tom Hoover has died", and my heart stopped for a minute, it seemed.
Bob continued to give me what few details he had and my mind wandered back almost half a century ago. Tommy was two days older than I am. When my family moved to Camp Hill, Pennsylvania he was one of the first friends I made. Two 12 year olds beginning the 8th grade. So many memories have come rushing back, providing tears and some laughter as well.
Tom was brilliant, talented, undisciplined and far from a saint, but he was and is my friend and I love him .
I remember the speed reading contests in school. Finally, at 1,500 words per minute, it was only the two of us left. He beat me at 1,600 words per minute.
Tom lived behind Camp Hill High School and there used to be sock hops every Saturday night. As we became teenagers, Tom formed "The Pyramids", his first band. When the school officials wouldn't let him play one evening, he set the band up in his backyard and emptied the hop. 300 hundred kids in the parking lot with Tom playing on his lawn.
Because of Tommy, I met the men I call friends, today. It's been a gift I never really had the chance to thank him for. Bob Angelucci and I met in Tom's living room. We would later attend college, together, and start a friendship that's lasted for more that 40 years. I first met Dave Bupp and Buddy King at a "Battle of The Bands" that involved "The Del-Chords" and Bob's group, "The Endells".
As Tom Paine, Jim Seville and Terry Crousore joined "The Endells" my friendship with them began, as well. When Tom quit "The Magnificent Men" I had to track Bill Richter down, between college classes, and get him to agree to play that weekend with the band. The rest of that story became history.
There's a hole inside me. One that can not be filled. Although we hadn't stayed in close contact, Tommy was always there in my thoughts and my heart. I miss him.
THOMAS HOOVER
1946 - 2008
"Friends are like balloons; once you let them go, you can never get them back. I'm gonna tie you to my heart so I never lose you"